Saturday, October 24, 2009

Celibacy, Why the wait?

Angela Simmons, the daughter of Rev. Run Simmons, has been one of a few young celebrities (others include Jonas Brothers) that is associated with the term celibacy.  Supposedly, Simmons and her Ex boyfriend, skater Terry Kennedy, broke up due to her commitment to "save herself" for marriage.  Her celibacy was one, if not "the" reason they are no longer together.  However, Angela has moved on and is now dating rapper Skillz.  It was recently reported that Angela and Skillz have both vowed to commit to celibacy, TOGETHER. Isnt that sweet?

Celibacy is used to describe a state, in which, one decides to abstain from sexual intercourse.  However, by definition celibacy is a chosen state of being unmarried
and abstaining from sex.  Therefore, by definition one can chose to become celibate at any time, right?  If a person has had intercourse before and now states they are celibate, can you really call them a liar?  Could you respect a partner who proclaims to abstain from sex until marriage? 
 
The reality is......
 
In today's society it seems even the 90 day rule has become cliche, and one night stands and instant hookups are normal.  How long do you have to abstain to become "officially" celibate?  How long do you have to wait until you loose your celibacy?

2 comments:

  1. HOW DO I ANSWER THIS BLOG WITHOUT BEING BIAS?????? CELIBACY IS SOMETHING PEOPLE BECOME WHEN A:THEY R NOT GETTING "IT" ON THE REGULAR AND B:WHEN THE PERSON HATES THE AFTERMATH OF GIVING "IT" UP RATHER IT B MALE OR FEMALE.I DNT BELIEVE IN BEING CELIBATE AND/OR CELIBACY BECAUSE I REFUSE TO STOP SOMETHIGN I FIND SO PLEASURING BOTH TO ME AND THE FEMALE.........THAT'S JUST ME....I AM OHIO
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  2. I feel kinda bad that I dont believe that she and TK didnt get down. Maybe I'm just secretly wishing I still had my virginity LMAO. Truthfully, if I could go back and do it again, I would most def try to hold off until I was married! Yes, a person can be celibate whenever they please. I was celibate for a while after I got out of a 5 year relationship and still would be now if I wasnt with my Boo.. F**K these folks, but not like that LMAO!!

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